Yesterday morning Sarah woke up earlier than Matt. She got up and together we got Dan up and we all jumped back into bed with Andy. Dan got wriggly so he and Sarah got back up and started playing in the lounge. Dan must've got frustrated about something cause he did his typical scream to say 'hey give it back' (or similar) and Sarah rushed back to her bedroom, talking as she went.....'its ok Matt, Dan's just screaming'. Matt was awake. My question is how did she know that from the living room? She couldn't see Matt (he was still in bed). She couldn't hear him (we were right next door and hadn't even heard him move!). So how did she know that he was now awake and might be frightened by the noise?
I still say that they have that 'twin connection' thing happening. Or more she does for him. You've probably heard this before, but giving birth, he was in serious trouble, yet she was the one who told us. We had the c-sec due to her, yet she was perfectly ok. He was not.
Several other times during their lives, shes told us she's in pain when Matt has just had a knock or accident. Yet she is physically fine.
I always wondered if this could happen as they are not identical (although now she's got short hair no one would know otherwise), but I have to believe it. Too many times things like this have happened. Its freaky, but kinda exciting too. I love that they have such a strong connection to each other. And I just hope they will stay as good friends as they are today for the rest of their lives.
Ok, things that have made me feel (literally) sick the last couple of days:
- Boxing day sales. After spending all that money on Xmas, we are then tempted with sales. Good sales. 20-50% off everything sales. I think its cruel and we haven't been near the shops. Many people can't afford many things let alone Xmas, yet if they waited and had Xmas one day later, they would be much better off. I know its a marketing ploy, but to me it is a sad inditement of the world where consumerism is everything and I hated sitting there on Xmas eve seeing ad after ad from the 'whos who of NZ retail', advertising their sales two days later. Shame on you!
- The assasignation of Benazir Bhutto. I don't know the whole history surrounding her, but have read a little and believe there is alot of controversy. What I did see was a woman who wanted democracy in her country and was killed for it. It made me very sad. I feel for her family.
And things that have made me happy:
My boys and I playing in the mud at the bottom of our property.
This is why we brought this house. To give them a childhood that is filled with adventure. Things that are bigger than themselves (like the mangroves they can play between). Things they can hunt for and make believe in, creating huge imaginations. The last few days we've been playing down here when the tide is low, and they have been little mice, mermaids, and fishermen. Our decision to buy this property has been more than confirmed. And I feel blessed.
When we first moved in, M&S were real city kids. They were too scared to even walk down the path to the water. It had sticks and leaves and they would slip over. Now just one year later, they are still city kids ;) but Matt is wandering up and down without any shoes on, they are both totally absorbed with the plants and flowers they see. They play in the mud and watch their Dad and I work together on planting more trees mowing the bank, trimming trees, etc. I could not have wished for more.
These were taken just a couple of days ago. Tidying up. Planting....we brought some feijoa bushes which we planted in the holes Dan is playing in. We got three. So are hoping that will keep the kids amused as they get older.
Cute kid stuff:
A comment from Sarah yesterday "I might look at my emails on my computer". hmmmm, wonder where she gets that from ;)
Matt created a beautiful book for Granny a couple of days before Xmas. It was done all in green crayon. And we even put staples in as a spine. When showing Andy he said...This is my book for Granny. Its called 'Live in greenland'. Here he was with a plan all along, and I just thought it was a green mess. LOL! Just goes to show how much I know! LOL!
The other day Matt was getting told off and started to cry. Sarah leans over to him and quietly whispers "I love you".
Enough rambling from me....enjoy the weekend. Looks like we might be blessed with some more nice weather? Cross fingers hey?
Have a good one.
PS: Heres this weeks sketch.....